When pet owners dress up their dogs in miniature white dresses and tiny
tuxes, some believe the barks that signal "I do" reveal true puppy love.
These animal lovers say their pooches can feel real longing for other pets,
but experts aren't so sure. Most people agree a wedding is just for fun or
charity when the groom is drooling and the bride's gown needs tailoring for her
tail. After all, "you may now lick the bride" doesn't have quite the same ring
to it.
The doggy nuptials are gaining attention as Valentine's Day approaches and
people find new and unique ways to pamper their pets.
"Pet marriage or weddings are for people," said Dr. Bonnie Beaver, executive
director of the American College of Veterinary Behaviorists and a professor at
Texas A&M University's College of Veterinary Medicine.
Owners host weddings because it makes them feel good, she said, though most
get planned for dogs instead of cats. People can't know what dogs are thinking,
but studies have shown they do experience emotion, Beaver said.
"Fear is a classic example," she said. "But we don't know if they experience
it as you or I would." Style: queenie
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Others say it's all about the animals — even if that means the first dance is
a walk around a patch of grass instead a waltz.
"The weddings are for the dogs," said Adina Slotsky, the owner and CEO of
Hollywood Pet Parties. Though birthday parties, dubbed "barkdays," are much more
popular, she said.
When owners plan doggy nuptials, aka "puptials," they can go all out. There
are groomsmen and bridesmaids of every breed — and even some people who get down
on all fours — flowers, music and a reception with food both people and pooches
can enjoy, ranging from apple slices to baby back ribs with spinach.
All pet weddings move quickly because of short animal attention spans. With
all the distractions, dogs spend lots of time on leashes.
A simple wedding costs about $300, Slotsky said. But it can easily grow to
thousands of dollars if guests are plentiful, the venue is top-notch, the food
is extravagant, a band plays and a florist creates centerpieces, she said.
The most lavish pet wedding took place in New York in 2012 when Baby Hope
Diamond, a fluffy white Coton de Tulear, married a poodle named Chilly Pasternak
as a charity fundraiser.
It was a ceremony for the ages, complete with limos, a $6,000 designer dress,
a sushi chef, mixologist to create "puptails," florist, orchestra, wedding
planner and parking valets. Ellen DeGeneres' pet food company furnished a dog
food buffet.
The event raised $158,187.26 for the Humane Society of New York and earned a
place in Guinness World Records for the most expensive pet wedding. Everything
was donated, and guests spent up to $10,000 for a table of 10.
One thing pet owners don't have to worry about is divorce. But because
animals have unique personalities just like people, there is no guarantee two
animals will get along, Beaver said.
No studies show pets like or love one another, but "it is very common for two
or more individual animals to spend a great amount of time together and show
signs of stress if separated," she said.
But some stick by the belief that dogs love, including Carol Bryant,
co-founder of Wigglebutt Warriors, the fundraising division of dog health
website Fidose of Reality.
"I do believe that dogs can love and be in love with each other," said
Bryant, whose cocker spaniel married another dog for a company fundraiser. Also read: black
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